*A NOTE ABOUT TERMINOLOGY: Throughout this website, when we use the term “gay,” please understand it to mean “gay, lesbian and/or bisexual.” The term “soldier” can be interpreted as “servicemember” or “soldier, sailor, airman and Marine.” I intend no disrespect to lesbians, bisexuals, or the US Navy, US Air Force, or the US Marine Corps. I have condensed these terms to make the site easier to read and less cumbersome for the reader.